Arranged Marriage brings to strangers closer for ever. Then the life long process of learning about each other commences. Mostly, these experiences involve clashes of interest and ego. There can be moments of hopelessness and despair. But commitment compels us to put on with the marriage initially. Over the years, perseverance works and becomes the secret behind a successful marriage. This article tries to appreciate this very useful trait in marriage.

In past years: Perseverance was a norm in the relationships of past years. Couples realized the important of commitment and were patient enough to work for the success of the marriage. There was a fair amount of dominance of the males. But the couples involved themselves either jointly or on individual levels to settle disputes. These well handles truffles strengthened the bonds between the partners.

In the recent years: Perseverance works only if it is inseparably coupled with patience. But in today’s world of globalization, people are losing the appreciation for these virtues. It is hard to realize for the present generation that certain things in life are time ordained. Working for them relentlessly involves pain and efforts. Somethings which we are not ready for or used to these days. The consequences are apparent with increased rates of adultery and divorces in society.

In future: The kids of the present generation are growing up amidst gadgets and attitudes which are fast and based on convenience. Their requirements and thought patterns will also end up being so in near future. They cannot be blamed because we are presently providing them an up bringing which hardly appreciates the lost virtues of patience and perseverance. To raise a future generation with a healthy attitude towards relationships, it is a must that they are taught how perseverance works.