Why Married Men Cheat?
Can you believe these facts – nearly 75 percent of married men i.e three in every four men cheat, and most of them go for an extra affair within the first three years of their married life. But it’s true. Do you know why?
This infidelity in men can be attributed to many factors. But the main reason, however, is it’s easier than ever before. Here are the reasons relationship specialists give for why men cheat:
Technology – An Easy Mediator
In the past days, there was no much scope for a man to communicate with other woman so easily as it is possible now. With increased easiness in communication with new technologies like mobiles, pagers, email, chatting etc., men have more scope to find and maintain a new relationship. These technologies allow men to cheat their wives easily without leaving any clue.
More Chances to Meet and Mate
With women becoming more independent and getting into jobs at various levels, the access between a man and woman has become much easier giving a better scope for developing ‘new relationships’. Lunch together at workplace, official parties, going out on various occasions, etc. give more chances to meet and also to mate later.
No Self-Control – Express Yourself
Normally a man thinks ‘If it feels good, do it’. This is the best reason why men go for extra affairs. A man, most of the times, feels it difficult to suppress his feelings, and in in turn tries to finds avenues to express his feelings. Obviously, an extra-marital affair is the best way of ‘expression’.
Satisfying Ego – Conquer More
Every male will have ego, and he feels having more relationships is the best way to feed his ego. Having one means ‘good, having two ‘better’, having three ‘best’, and more than that ‘great’. This is how a man satisfies himself, and that’s why he tries to conquer more women with Alexander’s thirst.
Lone Women Need Men
As relations getting disturbed due to various reasons, nowadays more ‘lone women’ are there in society. Though they search for new relationship or not, men are always ready to ‘help them out’.
Safe Sex – More Sex
In the past days chances were very less to have ‘safe sex’. That is the reason why men tried their level best to control their ‘feelings’, and the statistics of extra affairs were very less. Now, with new and more means of ‘safe sex’ available, men got more freedom to have an extra affair.
If you have any more reasons for ‘why men cheat’ or ‘why you want to cheat’ let us know. But, make sure your wife is not with you when you post your comment.
Also know: Top 10 Signs of a Cheating Husband and Easy Ways To Keep Your Husband With You
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December 1st, 2006 at 8:04 pm
where did you get your statistics? I think they seem rather high…. 75%?!
December 20th, 2006 at 9:28 am
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December 30th, 2006 at 9:29 pm
i cheated on my wife with a co worker but i dont feel guilty cuz i blame my wife for it cuz she has changed alot with me she is not the same as when i met her but not only that she is not beeing a woman with me every time i want to make love to her she comes with an excuse and she avoids me i try talking to her about it but she saids im crazy and is just me seeing thigns
September 10th, 2007 at 4:53 am
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January 30th, 2008 at 11:17 pm
having an affair with other lady after 45 years marriage
May 28th, 2009 at 12:10 am
i have cheat with a married men before on his wife but i didn’t love him it was just the sex for the time. And the fact they just had a new baby girl and i know she couldn’t have sex. So i saw it as helping her out. I didn’t want her man. It’s LIFE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
July 22nd, 2009 at 1:28 am
I TOTALLY AGREE WIT KAMEKA.I BEEN WITH MY MARRIED MAN FRIEND GOING ON 2YEARS NOW.N I DONT LOVE HIM BUT IT FEELS SO NEW EVERYTIME WE DO GET 2GETHER.OTHER THAN THAT SHE COULD KEEP HIM.IF I HAD HIM 2MYSELF I WOULDNT WANT HIM..STRANGE HUH
July 23rd, 2009 at 7:11 am
married men cheat to boast there egos. They think there wifes wont find out and when they do they lie. They drop the other women like a ton of bricks, dont they realize the other woman has feelings too.